Time To Grow Up

Hi Ladies!

So this post is about being terrified. Brad and I are very happy together and are looking to make the next move. Which is running away and joining the circus! Jk Jk.

It’s moving in together. It’s getting a place together. This means buying a place. So like I already did that, but with my mom like 3 years ago. Since then, all hell has broke lose and my credit isn’t the best. I’ve had some pretty bad luck with accidents and cars which have led to my Credit Cards all being used. Saying all that, Brad is absolutely spotless. Not a drop of debt or shame to his name.

We are yin and yang, light and dark, tall and short…. you get it.

So tomorrow, Brad would like to go see a mortgage agent to see about purchasing a home. Needless to say, I am freaking out. I feel as though all my issues will lower our odds of having a great mortgage.

I’m also scared that Brad will see me in a negative light. I have shared some of my finances with him but it’s different when a professional lays it all out.

On the bright side, I know what I need to do. But do I have time? I want Brad and I to be on the same timeline. I wanna be his perfect Girl but Ofcourse life isn’t perfect.

Send me good vibes and good advice. I’m gonna hardcore pray tonight.

Tomorrow is gonna be hard.

Golden Rule: Credit Cards are the devil, stay away from them.

Tips for guys: Go easy on your GF and her debt. She’s trying her best.


Coordinates Of Love

Hi Ladies!

Brad and I just celebrated our one year anniversary this past weekend and it was delightful. It was about two weeks too early but we wanted to avoid high prices. We sauntered off to Vegas of the North! Yes, Niagara Falls. We gambled and Ate. Saw the Falls and Ate. Walked around a lot and did I mention that we ate?

Don’t you love a weekend getaway. I got to be day drunk with no judgement from anyone…. well except from Brad. I was literally drinking before noon in some cases. Anywhooo! I never get to drink because in my day to day real life, I have to drive everywhere.

Sooo there were gift exchanges and my gift was quite special. It was literally coordinates of love. It’s basically a cool astrological map of the night we met, with coordinates and a romantic poem from my man. What else can a girl ask for? I’ll post a pic below, so that you guys can see just how soppy and happy we are. Lol.

I know what’s on your mind! What did I get him? Why, I got him the greatest gift on earth! Me! Nope, JK. I got him a baby Groot planter, that I didn’t know was a planter until he told me but a planter none the less lol. I also got him a flash t-shirt. Yeah my gift wasn’t as romantic but hopefully he’s equally as happy! I’ll attach a pic of that as well. And yeah! I’ve been in a relationship for a while now. A relationship that is meaningful and is going somewhere.

Who would have thought? After all the drama right?

Also ladies, guess who texted me out of nowhere? As I’m sitting on the couch sandwiched between my boyfriend and his mother? Picky Eater! The guy who couldn’t decide if he wanted to be with me or not! (Read blogs from November 2017 to get all caught up).

It’s so weird, guys who have treated you like crap definitely have radar for when you are happy!

Oh well! He was just a blimp from my past. It’s crazy to think how much I have out grown him.

All in all, I’m quite happy with where I am in my love life. I have grown up and have made waaaay better decisions. I’m finally finding out what I’m worth. Though I should I have figured that out on my own, sometimes it just takes an incredible person to love you and to enlighten you.

Golden Rule: allow yourself to grow with every heartbreak, it’s hard to see while your in it; but you are getting stronger.

Tips for guys: Stop texting every girl you have dated in the past 5 years just because you thought of her. If she isn’t texting you, she’s happy. Just let her be.

Being 29 Sucks

Hi Ladies,

So I’m 29 years old and I graduated from school with my BA in HR and have about 5 years experience now. I’m working in a position currently where I am learning a lot but is completely un-enjoyable. I don’t feel accomplished or fulfilled when I get home, I just feel stressed out. I am now realizing that I am going to need my certification to get in a higher paying position. Or just a normal paying position, at least that’s how its looking these days.

But honestly, are we allowed to question what we want at this age? What makes me happy? Writing and singing. When I am doing those two things, I feel like I am doing what I was meant to do. They don’t feel like a chore or like something I would ever get tired of. But as we all know, those things don’t pay the bills according to our parents. Those things are just a complete waste of time.

I am just honestly trying to figure out if anyone is like happy with their job. Is being happy at your job too much to ask for these days? I know people who have great jobs and I’m literally just aspiring to get there. Only if being a writer was thing…….oh wait it is!

No golden rule or tips, just needed to vent.